MY TOP PARTY-THROWING TIPS FOR A FOOLPROOF PARTY

Wow- have I made some major mistakes when entertaining. Some foods don’t hold well or look terrible on a platter. If you decorate with lilies, you’ll quickly learn that they have dark yellow stamens in them that will stain your clothes and tablecloths. When you throw a lot of parties, you learn what works and what doesn’t. If you don’t entertain often, these tips can help you learn from some of my past mistakes. 

• 1. Prepare and taste all new recipes well before the party. This includes drinks. 
  2. If you are hosting a large party with lots of people, I suggest doing a trial run before party day. If you can, set tables, and place serving pieces so you can finalize your design and also determine what you’re missing. Look for areas of potential congestion. Make sure you have all of your essentials on a list.
  3. Have plenty of non-alcoholic beverages available.
  4. Make signature cocktails weaker as the evening progresses. I always make two containers; one full strength and one half strength.
  5. Have double the amount of ice you think you need.
  6. If your party is outdoors, have a definite plan in place in case of bad weather or storms and make sure everyone knows what it is. Including “Rain or Shine” on an invitation for an outdoor party tells your guests you have a contingency plan in case of showers.
  7. If you will be standing for hours during the party, consider changing shoes to relive pressure points after two hours. Change back again after two more hours.
  8. Casually pick up all abandoned plates and glasses as you pass through the room. Take care not to make a big production out of it—a frantic hostess is a party killer.
  9. Check the bathrooms every hour to make sure you have no plumbing issues—you’d be shocked at how many times this happens at a party. Replenish toilet paper and other essentials as necessary.
  10. Pay attention to the temperature. As rooms fill up with guests, they get hotter. Especially rooms with lots of recessed lighting.
  11. Check the burn time on candles before you buy them and buy the longest burning candles you can find. Check candles frequently once they are lit. Have extras available or just blow them out once they burn down.
  12. A coffee and dessert bar is always a good way to wind down a party. Give guests a little something to eat and non-alcoholic to drink before the drive home.

RECIPE: BACON CHIVE POTATO SALAD

There are some dishes that just scream summer and potato salad is one of those. I typically make my mom's potato salad recipe with lots of yellow mustard and onion but here's a new spin on potato salad that I really like. Tastes like a baked potato with sour cream, bacon and chives... yum!

Skill Level: Easy   Prep Time: 15 minutes

Cook time: 10-12 minutes

INGREDIENTS

1 pound red potatoes

3 tablespoons kosher salt plus 1 teaspoon

1/2 teaspoon black pepper

1/4 cup mayonnaise

1 teaspoon vinegar

1 tablespoon Dijon mustard

1 tablespoon yellow mustard

1/4 cup sour cream

2 tablespoons fresh chives, minced, plus 1 teaspoon for garnish

10 bacon strips, cooked crisp and crumbled reserve some for garnish

INSTRUCTIONS

Put the potatoes and 3 tablespoons salt in a pot and cover with water. Bring to a boil and cook until the potatoes are fork tender, about 10-12 minutes. Drain and let cool slightly. Cut into halves or quarter if the potatoes are large.

In your serving bowl, whisk together the mayonnaise, vinegar, Dijon, sour cream, 1 teaspoon salt and the pepper. 

Add the potatoes while they are still warm and toss well to coat. Try not to break up the potatoes too much. Add the bacon and chives, toss again and check seasoning. You may want a bit more sour cream because the warm potatoes will soak up most of the liquid. Add a bit more salt and pepper depending on your taste. Serve immediately or chill until serving time. Garnish with a dollop of sour cream plus the chives and bacon.

PARTY THEME: HOST A BIG AND EASY MARDI GRAS PARTY!

Break out the beads, it’s Mardi Gras! You may not have the parades, floats, Krewes, and crowds of Mobile or New Orleans, but you can still have the best of Mardi Gras right in your home---the music, the mood, the food, and all the fun! Hosting a Mardi Gras party is painless because all the components are easy to find or make. We planned our party in just two days. You can, too, even if you’ve never been to “Nawleans.”

If you are planning a trip to the Big Easy, read my post about where to go, where to eat, and where to stay in New Orleans. Read more...

THE FOOD

Gumbo and boiled shrimp can easily be made in large quantities so this is one of the best party themes for a big crowd. Your regular grocery like Publix, Whole Foods, even Winn-Dixie will have most of what you need. Stop by the seafood counter for shrimp. They can steam it for you or you can do it at home using my shrimp boil recipe. You'll also find cocktail sauce there but I always make my own. If you stop as you first enter the store and ask them to steam the shrimp for you, you can pick it up just before you check out. Always ask for fresh Gulf shrimp; it makes a big difference!

A Mardi Gras menu of gumbo, boiled shrimp, Muffuletta sandwiches, Sazerac cocktails, and King Cake.

TIP: I always take an ice cooler with me to the store so I can keep the shrimp cold on the way home. Or if it has been steamed, the cooler will help keep it hot, too. Pack with newspaper or brown paper to keep heat in.

If you don't want to cook, you can find surprisingly good frozen gumbo chock full of sausage and shrimp along with some really spicy crawfish (just for fun) in the frozen seafood section of the store. My own Gumbo recipe is easy to make and everyone loves it. I always make a big (giant) batch a day before and freeze some for later. On party day, make sure to heat the gumbo to at least 140 F -It takes longer than you  might think to heat a big pot of gumbo thoroughly so make sure to start early. See my video tips on Food Safety.

Serve the gumbo with rice. I always follow the standard recipe: 1 cup of rice to 2 cups water. And salt the water first and add a little butter. You can always use boil-in-bag rice if you have to; find it in the rice aisle. Who knew? I have a large rice cooker I use specifically for this.

You might have to educate the deli counter on the art of the Muffuletta sandwich: a round loaf of Italian bread sliced in half, scooped out, then slathered with a thick layer of olive salad and stuffed until overflowing with several different meats and cheeses. My favorite Muffuletta can be found in New Orleans at Central Grocery. The bread is what makes the real difference but you won't find that anywhere outside of New Orleans. Any round loaf can substitute in a pinch.

I always scout the store in advance to make sure I can find everything I need well before party week. That way I'm not frantically trying to source something at the last minute.

You can make your own Gumbo in advance and freeze it in zip top bags. That's what I do. Early in Mardi Gras season, I make a huge batch then chill and freeze. I take out only as much as I need to serve, that way I have gumbo when I want it!

THE DECORATIONS

The decorations were even easier than the food. Balloons, string lights, feathered masks, and beads are inexpensive and readily available in the traditional Mardi Gras colors of purple, green, and gold. If you want to spend a little more, you might get a Bourbon Street sign and street lights at a rental store to complete the feel of the French Quarter. If you have time to order online, Oriental Trading Company has a great selection of Mardi Gras essentials.

I get or order my Mardi Gras beads from Toomey's in Mobile, Alabama. They have a great selection of hand-strung beads, cheap beads, collector's beads, and theme beads to select from.

ENTERTAINMENT

Jazz, blues, and the unique sounds of Zydeco are a big part of any Mardi Gras celebration. Make a playlist of traditional favorites and don’t forget native sons Harry Connick, Jr., Aaron Neville, Louis Armstrong, Fats Domino, Jerry Lee Lewis, and Wynton Marsalis.

You’re all set to join the world’s largest party from the comfort of your own home. No middle seat or layover in Atlanta required!

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